Just like any other things love also needs the care and attention. Many couples don�t think about this and ultimately end up unhappy relationships. The vital concern about the breaking relationship is "the love". If you really in love with, your lover you have more chances to stop this breakup. Only thing you have to do is right dedication on right places. However, sometime it�s better to breakup rather than having so many pains for trying to save it. It�s like you are trying to catch a falling glass. If that glass breaks, while you are trying, your hands may cut and you�ll hurt. So sometimes it�s better to let go.
And if you think deeply, this breaking point is not due to one major reason. It�s a series of disappointments and resentments. At last it comes like big tide. So�it�s very difficult to stop. However it really doesn�t have to be the end of the relationship. Even the unhappiest of relationships can be fixed with a bit of understanding and love.
Most of the, time couples prefer to just end an argument with slammed doors and silent evenings, not coming to home or drunken nights rather than face the situations, or sort it out and clear the matter. We must understand that, as humans anyone can do wrong things. But name of the love we can forgive for each other. Further, never judge your partner. it takes a lot of courage and strength for your loved one to confess about something that they feel may be bad or hurtful. When you judge your partner, you make them feel worse, and you also psychologically affect them and make them shut themselves up. And once your partner feels uncomfortable sharing their dark secrets with you, they�d prefer to hide their secrets or talk to another friend rather than tell you what they really feel. And that�s never going to help your relationship. In fact, it could be one of the worst things that can happen to your relationship. And if you feel, your loved one do something wrong, just directly talk, rather than playing around or accusing. Because it�s may have a chance to prevent hot argument in near future. And let them feel how badly hurt yourself due to that case instead of shouting and quarreling. And unless an unpardonable mistake is repeated, learn to forgive and forget. Sometimes, even the best of us can make a mistake without really wanting to.
If the reason for breakup is too heavy, don�t try to fix it soon. It�s because your breakup is still fresh in both your hearts and minds and this might get in the way of your discussion. Give a little time for that. Time is a good remedy for most of the cases. But just don�t pass the time or make a space between you and your partner. Take this time as an observation period, and when the right time comes talk with your partner. At that time both you people realized and regret about lot of things than before. So both you have good chance to discuss the matter. On the other hand, you may not be able to change your partner�s desire or an idea, but still you can change yourself to comply with them, unless it�s not major issue. Changing oneself doesn't mean being submissive to the partner, but following a better way to be in a more satisfying relationship.
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