Office love affaires are good or bad?

Most of us work office in more than 40 hours, in a week. Think about when we meet same person in that much of time, we spend hours upon hours engaging and collaborating. That dynamic can soon turn to flirting. On the other hand, if you deduct the sleeping hours and times of other activities, from the remaining day today time periods, you spend no more than, 25 hours with your family or loved one. According to a recent CareerBuilder study, 39% of employees said they have dated a co-worker at least once over the course of their career; 17% reported dating co-workers at least twice.  Almost a third (30%) of those people said they had gone on to marry the person.  So there is a huge potential to have an affair with the co-workers in an office.

But the problem is how ethical is this? Think you, as a loving husband to your wife. But at the office due to certain circumstance you are dating with a lady who is working with you in the office. Do you like, if your wife is doing very same thing, in her office? Like wise...if you are a good wife or a girl friend, would you like, your husband or boy friend have physical bond with other women in his office. Nobody which is not having any mentally illness, likes to let their loved one have physical bond with others. and the very same time you are cheating to your better-half too. So�both ways are painful. if you already, do this in your office, think twice and think whether this is ethical or not. 

And the other hand, these types of relationships are really matters to other co-workers in the office. Suppose, if you are a Boss, and you fell in love with low ranking officer, defiantly you bias to them and do more favors to her or him without proper judgments in his or her works or performances. So this may not any good for other workers as well as your institute. 

Second thing is, if something goes wrong with your informal romance, what is the consequence? An instance, I saw onetime, a decent lady (A wife) came rush in to my office and flapped a lady who is work in my office, in front of her office lover (Very high ranking officer).  So what�s his reputation or dignity? Most of the time either one has to move away from there. And the other thing is while you are having an office romance you may miss your duties too. So why do you put your career in to a jeopardy? Think well and do right.

But don�t forget that, Bill  and Melinda Gates Met at a 1987 Microsoft press event in Manhattan and married in 1994. They married on Jan. 1, 1994, on the Hawaiian island of Lanai. The couple has three children. Barack and Michele Obama Met in 1989, when Michelle was assigned to supervise Barack, a summer associate from Harvard Law School, at a Chicago firm. Married in 1992. They have two children. I guess they did these successful  marriages as were in singles.